看的時(shí)候竟然心里毫無(wú)波瀾 我覺(jué)得我的婚姻愛(ài)情觀都被浮生取義那本書帶歪了婚姻愛(ài)情的溫情脈脈下是有power imbalance的誰(shuí)更愛(ài)誰(shuí)一點(diǎn)更愿意付出一點(diǎn)就站在弱勢(shì)唯一能期待的是對(duì)方良心發(fā)現(xiàn)不自私地利用對(duì)方的弱勢(shì)這種不對(duì)等不是任何制度可以彌合的而是某種程度上必然存在的人與人之間的善意又太不牢固東北往事第二季無(wú)法依靠所以總而言之marriage and love are hard.
Maybe I didn't fight in a war, but I'm allowed to have a crappy day just like everyone else. Something that was really important to me ended. I know it was a little goofy, but it was a big part of my life, and when big things end, it's hard not to imagine how they started, so please, if you could just ease up for maybe two seconds. I really love how Kevin put his emotions that precisely and frankly and his awareness to the right to be down. It took me years to get that, and it really feels good - making you more connected both to the real self and to others.